Showing posts with label agriculture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label agriculture. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

I've Been Shooting Farming in the Foot: Three Things I Wish We'd Stop Saying in Agriculture.

Hello, I'm a farmer. I've been shooting myself in the foot.

Here's how.

For years, we in agriculture, have raved about the redeeming qualities of "family farms".



Don't get me wrong, I loved growing up working with my family on our farm.
That's me, part-time grain cart driver, full-time Mama.

Today, I love farming with my husband and children, but what if you were not born into a "family farm"? How would that make you feel about farming? Is there some club that you didn't get invited to? Do you somehow not belong unless you have "blood" in farming?

What if your farm is experiencing success and is growing and you need to hire help?
How does this make non-family employees on farms feel? Like they're less important than the family members on the farm team? Not so. I care for our non-family team members (and their dogs) as much as I care about my own flesh and blood.

Every member of our farm team is important. Large, small, K9, I care about them all.

What if you exited a family farming partnership?  What kind of guilt would you carry for "breaking up the family farm", even if it was the right thing to do? Not all families work together in businesses in town. Not all families are meant to farm together either.

Worst of all, the term "family farm" has been hijacked and is being used in the media as a whiny, pity-filled, political pawn.

Don't feel sorry for me. I love my vocation. I'm happy with my choice.

As just 2% of the U.S. population (Source: American Farm Bureau Federation), we farmers better get really excited about recruiting future farmers and agribusiness professionals to support us and our peers, and we better do it quickly.

I say bring on the first generation agriculturalists! Celebrate them! Mentor them!

So, please, STOP SAYING "FAMILY FARM", just call it a "FARM".

PERIOD.

The second way I've been shooting farming in the foot is calling what we do an "industry".

For years we've called ourselves an "industry". Rolls right off the tongue. Yes, we grow things and make things. Yes, we use lots of mechanization, but "industry" sounds cold. It doesn't sound enjoyable. It sounds inhuman.  What I love most about agriculture is the culture, our people.

We are a "community".  Even those we bid against for land rental contracts, we stop and help if they're stuck in the mud or broken down, and they do the same for us.  We go to church, 4-H, and school together.  In my opinion, rural communities are the best communities. Let's start talking about why we love living where we live. Afterall, most farms are rural and immobile. If we're going to recruit first-generation farmers (or convince our own kids to come back to our farms), we'd better start talking up why we love living where we live and the communities we are thriving in.

The third, and final, term, I'm guilty of using, that is further alienating those who choose to invest in what we grow; "Consumers".

This one is tough. It's been engrained since my Dairy Princess days.
1996-97 Maryland Dairy Princess.
A life changing experience and my first opportunity to hear what the public really thinks about agriculture.

However, these days I am a parent. I do most (but not all) of the grocery shopping. I'm on the production end of agriculture as well as the retail end and I don't like being called a "consumer".  That makes me feel like I am mowing through life like a Hungry Hungry Hippo.
This is Hungry Hungry Hippos, in case you weren't a child in the 1980's :)
Call me a "parent". Call me a "customer". Call me a "food decision maker" because I am important and with every trip I take to the grocery store, I am voting with my dollars. Better yet, call me a "food choice Mom",  but please don't call me a "consumer".

Thank you for hearing me out.  If you, like me, are going to try to change the way you talk about farming, which hopefully changes how people perceive farming, THANK YOU.

God Bless,
Sarah :)

"Then he (Christ) said to his disciples. "The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few.  Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field." Matthew 9:37-38, NIV

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Meeting Miss America at NDSU Collegiate Farm Bureau Food Awareness Week

In early April 2012, the North Dakota State University Collegiate Farm Bureau Chapter (of which I am proud to be a founding member) hosted their first "Food Awareness Week".

I was flattered when the group asked me to come present as part of this event.

My friend, Katie Pinke  and I tag-teamed that night, which was great fun! 

(Katie writes a fabulous blog over at The Pinke Post !)

First, I gave some background on how the animal rights and environmental movements have gained ground in our nation and described their resources, tactics, and a few specific organizations.  It's important to thoroughly understand what challenges American agriculture is facing if we are to move ahead and prepare ourselves for the future. 


Thanks to Katie for snapping these photos.

 
Following up on my presentation that motivated the group to take action on behalf of agriculture, Katie presented about social media tools we can to use to tell the story of American agriculture and explain the work we are doing on our farms and ranches.  
From left, Katie Pinke, Marketing and Information Director, ND Department of Agriculture; Karmen Kirkeby, then President of the NDSU Collegiate Farm Bureau; myself. 

The second day of "Food Awareness Week" was a presentation by Teresa Scanlan, Miss America 2011.  My colleague and I brought our daughters along for this one :)  After all, it's not often that Miss America visits North Dakota.

Miss S and Miss CW are very excited to meet Miss America!
 

The picture C.W. colored for "Miss Amerinca".

These girls were bursting with excitement and the moment they met Miss America was even captured by Dave Wallis, a reporter for the Fargo Forum.
 
 
 
 
Teresa did a phenomenal job, not only making a dream come true for my little girl, but giving a fantastic presentation about agriculture.
 
Yes, that's right, Miss America is carrying the torch for America's farmers and ranchers.
 
As the middle child of seven homeschooled children in rural Nebraska she talked about learning at an early age the importance of farmers and ranchers in her community.  She said "there is a thin green line between a safe, abundant, domestic food supply and imported food", citing that there are 210,000 working farms in the United States, yet there are 925 million people going hungry throughout the world.  Farmers and ranchers have an important job to do, yet they are "being attacked from all angles".
 
Recently, she joined forces with "The Hand That Feeds U.S." and says that serving as Miss America "was my chance to stand up for what I believe in" and a "chance to represent the farmers and ranchers".
 
More coverage of the event can be found at the North Dakota Farm Bureau website:
 
 
Video here:
 
 
 
Many thanks to the NDSU Collegiate Farm Bureau Chapter for putting together Food Awareness Week and to Miss Teresa Scanlan for being such a dedicated ambassador for American agriculture.
 
- Sarah :)
 
 
 

 
 
 





Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Our Farm is #WorthTheFight

I love agriculture with every cell in my body.  It is not just a vocation, but a calling.


(Photo by www.janiceperson.com )
Our children are the FIFTH generation on our farm.
Living and working on a farm is the best way I know how to raise a family, but it seems like more and more these days there are forces working against us.

From over-regulation, to misguided legislation, to activists with too much time and money on their hands, to ever-thinning profit margins, the challenges in farming today are many

However, like this awesome new tune called "Worth The Fight" by the band The Departed says (listen here), I'm going to keep "kicking and swinging".

Stand back folks, I've got my big girl gloves on...

 
because this life and our farm are worth the fight!

I don't do this for myself.  Believe me, it would be much easier to sit back, do things like they've always been done, and be apathetic to the threats to agriculture around the world. I'd get a lot more sleep and my house would be much cleaner (...maybe).

Instead, I have chosen to invest my time and efforts and fight for the legacy left by those that went before me.

Jeremy's Grandpa W.C. "Bill" Wilson, just after graduating from high school.


And for the opportunities for those that may choose to follow in my footsteps.
Hoping to inspire some future farmers :)

Check out these posts from my friends in agriculture that think it's #worththefight too!

Props to "Dairy Carrie" for putting this little campaign together:

http://dairycarrie.com/2012/09/11/worth-the-fight-worththefight/

My friend "just down the road" (about 60 miles), Val Wagner:

http://wagfarms.com/2012/09/11/worth-fighting-for/

The man behind "I am Agriculture Proud", Ryan Goodman

http://agricultureproud.com/2012/09/11/love-for-agriculture-and-red-dirt-music-worththefight/

A recent visitor to our farm, Janice Person
http://janiceperson.com/food/gotta-keep-movin-far-from-easy-but-worththefight/

and there are many others so check out the Twitter hashtag #worththefight !

THANKS for stopping by and I hope you'll join me in the fight for the right to feed, clothe, and fuel our world.

Step 1: If you are a North Dakotan, Vote YES for Measure 3, www.ndfeedingfamilies.com

Sarah :)

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Farming: "We Do It For You"

Last month I was asked by one of our Jamestown City Council members to write the "We Do It For You" column for our Main Street/Downtown Association Newsletter. (THANKS for the opportunity, Charlie!)
Thought you all might like to read it too! Enjoy! Sarah :)


"Agriculture is the backbone of our economy, making up almost 25 percent of our state’s economic base (Source: ND Department of Agriculture).   To reinforce this fact, I recently compiled a list of local businesses our farm and our family patronized in one year- there were FIFTY!  There were the obvious- our local implement dealers, tire repair service, seed, fuel, fertilizer and crop protection product suppliers, but many more were on Main Street and in Downtown Jamestown- our bank, grocer, office supply store, dry cleaning service, restaurants, gift shops, etc.
Main Street, Jamestown, North Dakota (Source: ScenicDakotas.com)

Along with having such a positive economic impact, the values that have carried farms and ranches through the generations are the heart of our community.  Every day farmers and ranchers are working hard to provide safe, wholesome, consistent, affordable products, in an environmentally conscience manner, for all of us to enjoy.

Harvesting soybeans with a combine.
With some help from Stutsman County Extension Agent, Lance Brower, I discovered that according to the National Ag Statistics Service and US Census, there are 1,043 farmers in Stutsman County.  According to the American Farm Bureau Federation, back in 1940, each farmer fed just 19 people.  Today, the average American farm consists of 446 acres and each farmer feeds 154 people.  However, Mr. Brower and I found that in Stutsman County, our average farm is 1,144 acres and each of our local farmers feeds 398 people!

Jeremy Wilson. One of 1,043 farmers in Stutsman County, each feeding 398 people each year!
While farmers and ranchers have increased our overall productivity, we have significantly increased our efficiency as well.  For example, Dr. Jude Capper, Washington State animal scientist, writes “Modern dairy practices require considerably fewer resources than dairying in 1944 with 21% of animals, 23% of feedstuffs, 35% of the water, and only 10% of the land required to produce the same 1 billion kg of milk. Waste outputs were similarly reduced, with modern dairy systems producing 24% of the manure… The carbon footprint per billion kilograms of milk produced in 2007 was 37% of equivalent milk production in 1944.”  Thanks to technology, the same trend of making more with less is happening in every sector of agriculture.
Dumping soybeans from the combines into the semi.

 Jeremy and I farm because we want to have successful business that will provide for our family for generations to come and we certainly love the work that we do, but at the end of the day, we farm because God has called us to help feed His people.  Truly, we do it for you."

Jeremy and Sarah Wilson own and operate J.S. Wilson Farm in Jamestown, North Dakota.  They have three children who are the fifth generation on the Wilson Farm. They are the winners of the 2011 Stutsman County Soil Conservation Achievement Award.  Sarah is also a professional speaker and blogger at http://farmeronamission.blogspot.com

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Farmer Sarah Visits Fourth Grade

I recently received a letter from my nephew, "B-Man", asking our family to buy magazines to support his classroom.  Any farmer knows that we get A LOT of magazines already :) , so I thought I could do something even better for B-Man's class.


When I learned that fourth graders in North Dakota are required to have a "North Dakota studies" unit and that within that there is a requirement for "agriculture studies", I was excited.  I was even more excited when I realized that my nephew, B-man, is in the fourth grade here in Jamestown! 


One phone call to the school got me connected to the principal and then directly to B-Man's teacher, "Mrs. F".  She was surprised that I was even interested in presenting to his class, and quickly invited me to visit and shared with me the standards she is expected to teach the "agriculture studies" unit. 

WOW.  Good thing I have friends in education and connections with Farm Bureau and all their fantastic educational resources!

I knew if what I taught could conform to these standards, it would be a win-win, after all, Mrs. F, like all teachers, is super-busy trying to meet all of the required standards already and I didn't want to waste any of her precious classroom time.

I wrote up an outline (below) of what I had prepared, and matched the information I planned to present to each of the standards and tailored my presentation to our family's story. Oh, and I only had 45 minutes, so I had to keep it pretty concise. Having handouts from the North Dakota Farm Bureau and ND Dept of Agriculture was helpful as well.


4.2.7 Explain the significance of agriculture in North Dakota history (e.g., immigration, railroads):



- (Show world map) The Frederickson family (B-Man's Great Great Great Grandfather and his three brothers came from Copenhagen, Denmark to farm in Kensal, North Dakota. Today, Danes are still immigrating to the Dakota’s for opportunities in agriculture.

- (Show US Map) The Wilson family (10 generations ago) came from England to farm in Pennsylvania and eventually moved to Indiana, then Kansas, then South Dakota, back to Kansas, then North Dakota.  From Kansas to North Dakota, the farm supplies and horses were moved by train.



4.2.11 Describe the effects of changes in industry, agriculture, and technology in North Dakota (e.g., energy production, transportation, farming methods):



- (Show world map) Global trade has had a tremendous effect on agriculture in North Dakota. The traditional commodities (corn, soybeans, wheat) we grow here now go around the world, or are processed and end up in a variety of products, while some, like pinto beans, are minimally processed and go almost directly to the consumer.  Also, the advent of the ethanol market has increased the demand for corn, and the biodiesel market has increased demand for soybeans, and animal agriculture is also interested in both of those crops and the byproducts of both fuel manufacturing processes.  The increases in efficiencies in agriculture, especially in North Dakota, have afforded our state and our nation an incredible opportunity to prosper.



4.3.2 Identify ways that natural resources (e.g., soil, minerals, trees, fish, people) contribute to the economy of the local community and North Dakota:



      - Discuss economic impact of agriculture. See handouts.

- Discuss ag land use for hunting and the positive indirect impact to our local economy that farmers/ranchers provide.



4.3.4 Identify principal exports of North Dakota (e.g., crops, energy, livestock):

      - I discussed how our crops leave our farm and how they go by  truck, train, barge, etc. around the world.



4.5.4 Explain how the physical environment (e.g., rainfall, climate, natural hazards) affects human activity in North Dakota:



- The environment and climate in North Dakota affects the choices of the crops we grow. Weather throughout the growing season, including hail, rainfall, drought, pests, etc. define the success of each year’s crop. We are fortunate in the United States to have access to genetically modified crops (or GMO’s) because we can choose drought or pest-resistant varieties.  This is so important, because there are only 988 farmers in Stutsman County and we are each responsible for feeding hundreds of people.

- Tornadoes and other natural hazards have destroyed or affected farm buildings and homes over the years as well. Bill Wilson (B-Man’s Great-grandfather) survived a tornado that hit the Wilson farm in the 1920’s.



4.5.5 Identify different patterns of land use in North Dakota(e.g., land use in urban, suburban, and rural areas, mining, agriculture, manufacturing):

- In the rural areas, with regards to agriculture, we have transitioned from tillage to a minimal or no-tillage system.  This has greatly increased our soil health.  We are finding more of, and a greater variety of, microbes in the soil, and earthworms.  Our soil has higher organic matter levels and no tillage decreased our cost of production on our farm.



4.5.6 Describe ways geography has affected the development (e.g., the development of transportation, communication, industry, and land use) of the state over time:

- Location near an urban center (Jamestown) influenced the Wilson’s family decision to milk cows and bottle and sell their own milk in the 1920’s.



4.6.1 Explain how background and history influence people's actions (e.g., farming methods, hunting methods, economic decisions):



-Agriculture always has been, and probably always will be based on “supply-demand economics”. See example with cereal boxes.

- We were fortunate to have B-Man’s Grandpa (Bill) Wilson with us for 91 years.  We often asked him about the history of the farm, including economic conditions of society as a whole, weather patterns, purchasing decision and crop decisions he made over the years. Having access to generations of knowledge of our land has been such an important resource. Of course, we’d rather learn from the lessons of the past and repeat their successes, instead of failures.



4.6.2 Explain the contributions of various ethnic groups (e.g., Native Americans, immigrants) to the history of North Dakota (e.g., food, traditions, languages, celebrations):



- Many of the foods we enjoy today came from the farm families that immigrated here.  In some areas in North Dakota, some families still speak German or have a strong German accent.  We still enjoy some of the native Danish and German dishes at our holiday family meals.

Some of the fun "visuals" I took included:

-Photos of our farm throughout the last century.
- A bucket full of household items. I had the students guess which animal the products came form. (You can get the brochure "When Is a Cow More Than a Cow?" from the ND Beef Commission that shows some of the over 1,000 products that come from cattle).
- Models of farm equipment through the years- from a horse to a modern tractor.


- I read the book "Mini Milkmaids on the Moove" that was written by my friend, Rebecca Long Chaney.



There was also a quick lesson in supply-demand economics. - which is how markets for agricultural products (like the corn, wheat, and soybeans we grow) function.  When I was planning my lessons, I noticed that my dear husband had brought home ELEVEN boxes of cereal from the store.  Note: This is what happens when a hungry farmer goes grocery shopping for "just a few things" :)  So I put those boxes to good use :)




I asked B-Man, if he were in a grocery store, how many boxes of cereal he would buy.  He said "one".


He said he was ready for what was next, so I started piling :)  B-Man is pretty tough- so he was able to hold 8 boxes!  I asked the class if they thought they thought B-Man would pay more or less for the boxes of cereal now, remembering that B-Man only wanted one.  They answered "LESS!"

I asked them to think about if they went to the grocery store and they all wanted cereal, but there was only ONE box left in the whole aisle.  They answered "MORE!"

B-Man was such a great sport and he got to pick his favorite box of cereal and take it home with him :)  The kids were AMAZED when they found out that each and every day we keep track of how crops are growing all around the world and how crops grown in Brazil or Australia could affect the price of crops grown in the United States.  That's global supply and demand economics.  They were even more surprised to learn that I really know farmers in other countries. 

Then, the last question of the day was the best..."Are you a professional?" I smiled, "Why yes, I'm a professional" :) 

You see, I did this presentation not just to teach the kids about farming and where their food comes from, but to help them learn to respect farmers and appreciate all that we in agriculture provide.

The most wonderful part of my trip to the 4th grade was that the ONE young lady (yes, even in rural North Dakota, just ONE) in the class that had farm experience was able to proudly share HER experiences with her class and I saw her classmates develop a new-found respect for her.

Once upon a time, I was a little girl that other kids made fun of. They called me a "dumb farmer" and that is something I will never forget.

Today, I know that this one class in this one school knows that farmers are professionals.  This was well worth the hour and a half I took out of my day to visit 4th grade :)

Many THANKS to Mrs. F for being such a great teacher and for giving me this opportunity!

Thanks for stopping by,
Sarah :)

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Oil is Sexy, but Agriculture is Forever.

One of my eldest daughter's first short sentences was "big boom".  She was referring to the dynamite demonstration at the visitors center at Mount Rushmore.
Well, that's what we've got going on in North Dakota right now- a Big Boom. Big Oil Boom.

It's thrilling and there is no question that all the oil activity has done great things for our state and I mean no negativity towards our friends and family working in the oil fields and those who own land where drilling is occurring.  Even hundreds of miles from the majority of the oil wells, we've benefited.  The oil boom makes just about every newspaper that comes to our front door. It's even on the national news.

However, with all that income, all that tax revenue, all those new jobs with all those big paychecks, all those new people, all that new construction, all the trucks, all the pipelines, all the easier it is to forget about the workhorse that has quietly and steadily kept our local economies, our state, and our nation secure and successful for generations. 

It's agriculture and it is forever.

The Wilson Farm in the early 1930's.
We farm here today with our children, who are the fifth generation of Wilson's on the place.

When the headlines fade about the millions (and billions) of dollars that are flowing thanks to the oil boom, agriculture will still be here.  Farmers and ranchers will still be working towards one of mankind's greatest endeavors- to feed, clothe and fuel the world's rapidly growing population, on less land, while using less water, less fuel, less labor, etc.  We are quite literally, growing much more with much less. 

According to Dr. Jude Capper, here are some of the amazing things we've been achieving in agriculture.  I'll focus on dairy, in honor of June being Dairy Month and my husband's great-grandfather, J. Harry Wilson, who was the first to bring dairy cattle to this part of the country.

Dr. Capper states, "Modern dairy practices require considerably fewer resources than dairying in 1944 with 21% of animals, 23% of feedstuffs, 35% of the water, and only 10% of the land required to produce the same 1 billion kg of milk."..."The carbon footprint per billion kilograms of milk produced in 2007 was 37% of equivalent milk production in 1944."

Read the full Journal of Animal Science article here:
http://jas.fass.org/content/87/6/2160.full

We're seeing these trends in every sector of agriculture.  Making more with less.  It's not as sexy as the oil boom, but when the boom ends, or at least slows down, and it inevitably will, agriculture will be still be at the heart of our communities and it will still be at the helm of our economy.

Thanks for stopping by,
Sarah :)

Friday, May 11, 2012

One Year Later.

Can't believe it's been a year.  Then again, yes, I can.  I have missed her at every single family event, I have picked up the phone to call her more times than I can count, in good times and in bad.

She was one of my "Top 5".  I can't rank those people, but I know exactly who they are.  You know, those people who are with you to celebrate your highest moments, who will also stand tall beside you and maybe even stand behind you, pushing, when things get really tough.


On May 12th, 2011, my Aunt Lynne went to be with our maker, only a few months after being diagnosed with cancer.  She fought as hard as she possibly could, but the cancer was so aggressive and complications ensued. And that was it. She was gone.

I knew when I got the call that I should go to my native Maryland to see her that things were touch and go.  I was expecting when I traveled out to see her and with it being such a high-risk pregnancy, I knew that I probably wouldn't be able to attend the funeral.  I was fortunate that we both had a window of health that allowed us to have a wonderful visit.


That was the last time I saw her.  My window of safe traveling conditions passed and I was heartbroken to lose her and heartbroken that I couldn't be with my family to say goodbye. 


Our baby boy arrived the next month and by some great miracle, and I believe, with Aunt Lynne and so many other loved ones watching over us from heaven, he was healthy.


When my little family traveled east at Christmastime, I stood at her grave.  I stared at that stone. Numb. I knew she wasn't there, but still I felt no closure. It took me this long to come to terms with things. They say time heals all wounds, but that isn't what has gotten me through the times when I sat staring at the phone, wishing for one last conversation or opened our holiday decorations only to find they were mostly gifts from her and I broke down and cried, alone in the garage.  I say that on His time, God heals all wounds.  A good friend once told me to find a way to praise God in even the most difficult circumstances.


So here I am, doing my best to follow the instructions in 1 Thessalonians 5:16, "Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."


God was so good to give us Aunt Lynne for every last minute we had her on this earth.


So many people have said such beautiful things about Aunt Lynne and I am grateful that they have shared their memories and encouragement with me, but today, in honor of the first anniversary of her passing and in celebration of Mother's Day, here is my personal message to Aunt Lynne and all who loved her.


Among the many hearts she was a piece of,  Aunt Lynne was a devoted wife, mother...

...sister...

...sister in law, aunt...

...niece and friend...

She was such an enthusiastic friend.  The kind of friend that you knew would go down swinging for you.  The kind of friend who always had your back.  She was SO funny.  She would have you laughing at her funny stories before she was even finished because she would be giggling so hard herself.  The ring of her laughter was contagious.  It's one of the things I miss the most about her.  She was my informant on anything that had to do with politics or current events.  She was unapologetically conservative. I loved that too.  She had a knack for technology and gadgets and I can remember he saying so many times, "You have got to see [such and such]! It is AWESOME!"


She shared humor constantly, whether it was of her own doing, or something she found along life's journey.  At the time of her passing, I bet she was half-finished at least a half-dozen home improvement projects and I'm sure was plotting more.  It was a constant state of chaos around her house, but I loved it.  There was this energy she brought into a room.
It was almost palpable. 

If it weren't for Aunt Lynne and her efforts to research and record our ancestry, I would not know who these two people are....

My Great-great-grandfather, August Bedgar, 1857-1945
My Great-great-grandmother, Anna Henrietta Marburger Bedgar, 1868-1940.

Aunt Lynne loved simple things, like Crocs...
...and sweatshirts.  She and I had our "tomboyish" nature in common.

I am grateful that God chose Uncle Jutzy for her.  He is such a wise and kind man.  They were such a great fit and balance for each other, it was almost cliche'.  We all have so many great memories together.  From renting a motorhome, piling in 5 adults and 1.4 children (I was pregnant) and driving all the way across North Dakota and most of South Dakota, to birthdays, graduations and many holiday gatherings at their home.

Aunt Lynne gave THE BEST gifts.  The book, "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman details the different ways people express and understand love. There is no question that Aunt Lynne's love language was "gifts".  She showed she cared by searching far and wide for the PERFECT gifts.  For Christmases, she sent to our home gifts that were always met with an unmatched level of excitement, from vintage toys to adorable clothes...
...to the funniest gag gifts :)  Her gifts are treasures and they're scattered in every room in our home and in every tub of every size of baby/kid clothes. If it weren't for Aunt Lynne, our Christmas tree would be almost bare.

In her travels to England, she got hooked on Christmas crackers, and because of her, they became a tradition in our family.
It just isn't a Bedgar family Christmas without those goofy paper hats! :)
Aunt Lynne was a passionate and tireless advocate for youth organizations like 4-H, and for military families. She claimed to be retired, but I think she may have been busier in "retirement" than she ever was. I was so proud of her for re-inventing herself and her career later in life. I hope that after my children are grown, I can do the same. 


We had a common bond in our love for animals and agriculture. 
 Of course, we had to stop and visit "Salem Sue" in New Salem, ND.

She could be tough as nails and could work just as hard as any man I know.

When I took a job in North Dakota, she was one of the first family members that came to visit me.  She was so impressed with North Dakota and kept saying "I can't believe you get off the highway and you're right on a gravel road!"

During her first visit to ND, she and I took a road trip to Medora, ND.  We spent about 10 hours in the car together that weekend.  We talked, we laughed (A LOT), we cried, we even sang together to some old country favorites.

She could sing like an angel.
She and my Aunt and cousin even made my wedding cake!

Somehow, they got it there in one piece! I don't know who drove it to the reception, but if it was Aunt Lynne, that cake had one wild ride :)

Aunt Lynne loved Jeremy and I and she loved our children, without conditions, but I think she took a little extra pride in our youngest daughter having red hair like hers :)

Aunt Lynne and Cousin Meghan even took the girls to the National Aquarium while I was on a business trip in Europe. Very brave of them :)  See that lollipop residue on C.W's smiling face? Yep, Aunt Lynne also had a knack for finding the coolest, most unique treats :)  And her homemade macaroni bake? It was AWESOME :) 

 The girls still talk about their trip to the aquarium and to this day, my oldest daughter sleeps every night with the stuffed shark Aunt Lynne got for her.  She left a wonderful, fun-loving, loyal, lasting impression on my girls, just as she did on me.

Although I will miss her until we meet again and I wish she could have met our son, it is in those ridiculous moments of parenting, when you can either cry or you can laugh, that I know she is laughing with me.

In Loving Memory of Lynne Norris, 11/20/48-5/12/11